A Magical Stepfamily Christmas
It has been a long time since I wrote. Life had gotten very complicated over the past two years as David and I struggled to cope with his cancer. As a full time caregiver, my outside and social media activities have shrunk considerably as my focus shifted to David.
Howevear, Santa was listening for David's Christmas wish. Here is what happened.......
Hearing that her Stepdad wanted a traditional family inspired Christmas and knowing she could not be with us on December 25, my Daughter jumped into action and planned a pre-Christmas Christmas - how wonderful is that?
A week prior to Christmas, she arrived in Nanaimo. Laden with containers, pots 'n pans, boxes, spices and gayly wrapped packages. She rented a motel suite with a fully equipped kitchen to work some magic. Her first stop was our kitchen where she whipped up a batch of peanut butter chocolate chip cookies. Returning to the motel, she tucked herself away and proceeded to heat up the kitchen: burners and ovens, beaters and mixers all going full bore. The result: a fabulous - and traditional pork pie - for our pre-Christmas Eve event. Her culinary skills and attention to detail - outstanding!!
The next morning it was a French inspired Christmas bunch elegantly set up in her motel dinette. I could get accustomed to this - I always have maintained that one can never have toooooo many Christmas celebrations in any given year.
My Daughter's culinary skills shown brightly as later on she whipped up another delicious pre-Christmas Day Christmas Dinner. The Christmas lights were shining, the presents beckoning, as we supped and sipped with family and friends. We opened the gifts and enjoyed more Christmas Cheer. David laid down as need and it was nice to know that he was able to participate - albeit from the bedroom. But he did get up and ate a hearty dinner.
When a stepchild loves his or her stepparent this much they truly embody the Spirit of Christmas through their caring, generosity and loving selflessness. The best gift a stepparent will ever receive.
David and I also celebrated our 31 wedding anniversary on December 22, it was pretty low key, as David wasn't up to going out. It was lovely and romantic with the fire going, candles lit and lights twinkling on the tree. We reminisced about previous celebrations at the Banff Springs Hotel, The Empress in Victoria, Tofino, England and Venice - so many wonderful, happy memories.
The December 24th Christmas Eve was spend quietly at home, with Mom. We sampled some wine-- well to be honest, David enjoyed a rum and coke--while we--oops make that me--finished wrapping gifts. After Church on the 25th, David, Mom and I gathered up boxes and bags, and cookies and tarts and headed off to my sister's home for Christmas Dinner, prezzies and Christmas Cheer. Again the dinner was outstanding, with all the traditional fixings, the house was beautifully decorated and bursting with gifts.
Our Grandson - 11 yrs - is with us for Christmas so it was extra special as both he and my Mom - out from Ontario - were with us this year which rounded out my husband's wish for a family Christmas. It wasf truly a magical stepfamily Christmas.
Why was this Christmas so Special?
Two years ago at Christmas, David was seriously ill. It was only after his neck broke in early January, that he was diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma which is a rare form of blood/blood marrow cancer. The following year just before Christmas, my oldest and dearest friend unexpectedly died. She brought much laughter and light into our lives. Sadly another family member also passed away a month before Christmas. So the last two Christmas's were overshadowed by grief, fear, loss and heartach.
This year, David--smaller, weaker but always optimistic-- expressed a desire to come together with family and friends to enjoy the holiday season. To share stories from Christmas's past, enjoy home baked goodies and celebrate the season in the loving warmth of his family.
Not knowing what next year would bring, I too wanted to enjoy this Christmas - to have another golden moment with David to remember and cherish.
So it was with inspired help and loving support from our family that we fulfilled David's Christmas Wish
it was a magical Christmas
We are truly blessed
Wishing each and every one of you a truly happy and joyful Christmas and holiday season.
Blessings to all
December 26, 2015